Have you ever thought of being a perfectionist but couldn't accomplish it because of certain flaws we all are born with? well, we wanted to be perfectionists but ended up being psychotics. jokes apart, I think it's time that we actually normalize being silly, normalize being hurt, normalize stress and depression. everyone says be happy forget the past blah blah.. but I think otherwise. As time goes by, these memories become your best frined, they soothe you, remind you of how much far you've come from those dreadful days. and instead of tears, a smile is carved upon your lips. it's the dreadful memories that make you strong and from these memories only one feels alive - so have your moment, be sad, cry it out because it's perfectly normal to feel hurt, to feel angry and upset. it is a part of growing up! so don't ever forget your bad memories, as they are keys to your future happiness.